What NOT to Say When Your Child Stutters

Stuttering is a speech disorder that affects the flow of speech, causing repetitions, prolongations or blocks while speaking. Many children experience periods of stuttering as they develop language and parents often wonder how to respond when it happens.

The words we use when a child stutters can greatly influence their confidence and comfort in communicating.

Common Things Parents Should Avoid Saying

When a child is struggling to speak, certain well-intentioned comments may actually increase their frustration or anxiety.

1. “Slow down.”

Although this advice may seem helpful, it can make the child feel pressured or self-conscious about their speech.

2. “Take a deep breath and try again.”

Children who stutter already know they are having difficulty speaking. Asking them to repeat their words may increase frustration.

3. “Think before you speak.”

This statement may make the child feel that they are doing something wrong or that their speech problem is their fault.

4. “Stop and start again.”

Interrupting the child’s speech can make them feel rushed and discouraged.

5. Finishing the child’s sentences

Completing their words or sentences may reduce their opportunity to communicate independently.

What Parents Can Do Instead

Supporting a child who stutters involves creating a calm and encouraging communication environment.

Helpful strategies include:

• Listening patiently without interrupting

• Maintaining natural eye contact

• Giving your child enough time to finish speaking

• Speaking slowly and calmly yourself

• Encouraging communication rather than focusing on fluency

These responses help children feel accepted and confident when expressing themselves.

When Should Parents Seek Professional Support?

If stuttering persists for several months, increases in severity, or begins to affect the child’s confidence, consulting a Speech-Language Pathologist can be helpful.

Early guidance and support can make a significant difference in helping children develop positive communication habits and confidence in speaking.

Conclusion

Children who stutter need understanding, patience, and encouragement. By responding calmly and creating a supportive environment, parents can help their children feel comfortable communicating and expressing themselves.